Category: Adoption

  • This whole karma stuff is confusing and makes no sense. Two examples from my life illustrates this.

    The whole ‘do good and you’ll get good things come to you’ makes no sense and in reality. I did good stuff that never came back to me. For instance, let’s go right back to when I was a child. How did I have such bad karma when I was only 8? I was pushed…

  • Invalidation of experiences happening again.

    I will not allow invalidation of our experiences by anyone on social media or otherwise. Especially when it comes from other women. I will not be looked down on and invalidated by them. I am totally sure about what happened in my case and how I lost my son. This poster may know people who…

  • Psychics predictions…

    Years ago, when I was at my most vulnerable, I used a lot of online psychics and felt conned out of a lot of my savings (most of that pot was compensation for a medical misdiagnosis as a child). They said a few things that might happen around this point of my life. The one…

  • Don’t make this mistake.

    I didn’t go to the adoption order hearing because I was emotionally too cut up. I didn’t think that me being there would make a difference. I look like I didn’t care because I didn’t turn up. I had the social worker ring to check if I was going to turn up. I let him…

  • The current system is not what is in a child’s best interest.

    The current children’s services system is NOT what is best for the child. If it was then most families that actually agreed to the adoptions without opposing it would get their promised letterbox contact. That doesn’t happen because the adoptive parents want the child without the birth family connection. It is easier for them to…