I’m trying to avoid getting into a conversation but I would like to point a few things out. I have been told I’m getting the house due to arrangements. I know a lot of what is planned but I’m not going to put it in the public domain. As far as certain commenters on other posts saying I don’t put anything that happens in regard to family on the blog… I have been forbidden to do so by my mother. I do however say stuff to people in private conversations all the time and no names are mentioned. To be frankly honest, if I got off benefits tomorrow and made enough to get a home etc then I would forfeit the house in order to have a peaceful existence and no trouble when my mother passes away. If I could ensure my own security then I would literally walk away from it. I don’t want the hassle that I am probably going to get. I had years of pain and conflict … don’t want anymore.