I’m trying to avoid getting into a conversation but I would like to point a few things out. I have been told I’m getting the house due to arrangements. I know a lot of what is planned but I’m not going to put it in the public domain. As far as certain commenters on other posts saying I don’t put anything that happens in regard to family on the blog… I have been forbidden to do so by my mother. I do however say stuff to people in private conversations all the time and no names are mentioned. To be frankly honest, if I got off benefits tomorrow and made enough to get a home etc then I would forfeit the house in order to have a peaceful existence and no trouble when my mother passes away. If I could ensure my own security then I would literally walk away from it. I don’t want the hassle that I am probably going to get. I had years of pain and conflict … don’t want anymore.
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8 responses to “I’m not going to directly respond but put a few things out there.”
You caused most of the pain and conflict over the years Emma – I have always asked you to keep anything to do with me, my family and other personal family stuff away from your blog, such as inheritance etc – you have chosen to ignore that, and continue to get my back up over it – just remember nothing is ever written in stone, you will not be inheriting that house while I have breath in my body, how can you when you wish your own mother dead online, she makes your skin crawl and you are only hanging around to inherit a house – it’s OK though because everything you have said about her and not being able to cope with your flat and your life, has all been printed off ready to be sent to lawyers to contest the will when she passes! She will probably out live us all anyway, but continue to put our private family business on here and I promise you I will serve you with an injunction and get it all removed because it shouldn’t be put on here – especially since you know exactly what you are doing to stir the pot!!
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Do not twist my words or make me out exactly what crap you’ve pulled in the past on here. I was never wishing anyone dead just voicing my concerns because I know what you’re like. I put family business that concerns me on here not any of you. At least I stay around and it’s not only for self gain unlike you and the other half sister.
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It’s exactly what you said Emma, I have it all in print so STOP!! You stay around because you choose to – we didn’t because of the way we were treated growing up which is something you can’t comment on because you weren’t born – you have no clue what it was like and she has gotten no better toward me or our other sibling! You bitch about everything but at least she treats you right – I have had one phone call from her in the last 16 years and prior to that 3 since the age of 15 when I left home – so you know nothing – so slow your roll and leave me out of your twisted blog please – nobody needs to know about your periods or your supposed inheritance, it’s nobody else’s business but yours and family – You really don’t know the half of what happened before you were born so if you really don’t want to make me an enemy then please shut up!! I have really had enough of your antics over the years and I think mum has too, because she is a shell of the person she used to be – that’s on you! As for the will, we have every right to challenge it and that’s what we will be doing, I have my lawyers in place to do that so grow up because everything should be split 3 ways anyway – that is what your dad wanted, I know this because mum told me so see you in court and please don’t write about family business again on here.
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And there are reasons, so I have been told you’re treated the way that you are by mum.
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You have been told one side of it trust me – you know nothing – so did she tell you about how she battered me on several occasions closed fists for something the other sibling did, or how I couldn’t have a relationship with my dad because he wouldn’t give her money or the day when I was 9yrs old, I walked 10 miles down the busy A47 to see my dad and she had no clue that I was missing until he rang her? That is just the start of it, you have no idea – these are very painful wounds for me and your dads life was over once they met! You have issues, yes, but don’t just place yourself on a pedestal as the only person who suffers, we all have issues – the vile stuff mum has told me about what she thinks of you over the years, I would not repeat to you or anyone else, horrible stuff that should never be said by a mother about their child!!
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I am aware of what mother has said about me behind my back. I found out by accident when I found stuff she wrote as like a diary for social services when I was seeing cahms. I’m sorry you experienced those things but they weren’t my fault. If it makes you feel any better, mum never noticed anything it was always down to my dad.
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It doesn’t make me feel better Emma, that woman should never have had kids and I will go out on a limb and say she is also Autistic which is where you get it from! It’s made worse when I tried to talk about this stuff – I get the “I don’t remember” reply from her! I don’t blame you for anything Emma, I just get frustrated at you because you don’t think about anyone but yourself at times – You are not aware of what she said because I’m talking about a couple of years before Covid, not way back like you think! So we will just leave it at that now I think please.
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She seems to forget a lot of stuff… conveniently. I was sent away and only had myself to think about. That is how I became. She was a nightmare when I had to move in with Jonny.
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