Time wasters and other stuff.

I don’t really know what to title stuff when I’m out, so I’ve loosely put the main topic and other stuff in the title above.

Firstly, if you are going to buy something off of someone, please do it properly rather than being a time waster. I had someone over bid on my old iPhone. Then they’ve gone quiet now I’ve invoiced them. The buyer is in the US, so I did message them and ask if they really wanted to buy it due to getting it to them etc. I’ve heard nothing from them in days and they’ve not cancelled the order or anything. I’m putting clothes on eBay for auction over the next few days. Please can I just request that people only bid if they are genuinely interested because I need to get rid of these things because they’re clogging up space in my flat. I’m not going to be messing about. I will cancel stuff if people do not pay, and nothing will get sent. If that person doesn’t get back to me about the phone, I will be cancelling that and putting it back up for bids. They have until tomorrow when the time limit runs out.

I woke up this morning (well my morning due to doing stuff until later). I have lost a bit more weight. 69.6kg (153 lbs.) (10 stone 9lbs). Work hard, it pays off when the weight starts coming off. I barely stop from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. I like it that way. I have an ADHD type brain that cannot sit doing nothing for long. It got me into trouble as a youngster. The trick is learning not to involve anyone else in your whole thing. They willingly have to come to you rather than hooking them and relentless trying to reel them in. The key is to plant seeds and then back off. As I said, be nice to even people you simply don’t like because it can help long term. Even people that have crossed me severely in the past due to stuff that has happened, for example: A, I refuse to be angry with them anymore and argue about what did and didn’t happen in the past. Life is too short, and I can’t even remember half of those things after Jonny’s adoption due to my head being a mess. It took me a long time to get to that point (anger still existed toward that stuff until at least mid-way through this year). It suddenly dissipates and you wonder why on earth it bugged you so much.