The discussions about having another baby have progressed into talks between myself and a mate who hasn’t had any children previously… saying we may as well go ahead with it. I’ve worked out my dates and we are going to go ahead with this from next month. I’m not sure he actually knows the reality of what he is potentially agreeing to because he is more autistic than me, but he understands things to a certain point. I don’t even know if it will work because of his medication etc. but options are limited at this point. We have to make the most of what we have. He lives independently but socially he is more affected than me in regard to autism.