I think that it is only fair that I spell out what I want in life. I feel that it will help others know where they stand when it comes to me. I am not looking for something serious but I am looking to settle down eventually leading to having another child. I don’t have much time left to do that. I have about 5 to 10 years of being able to have children left. That depends on how many eggs I have that are any good. There is less chance of getting pregnant once I hit 40 depending on when my periods decide to finish. I don’t mind if I have children with a woman or a man. It will be more straight forward with a man of course but there are ways women can have children as a couple now (not all options are expensive). I am really not fussed at this point of my life. I will get what I can in the limited time I have left to have another child. I don’t want to be on my own the next time. I do have a habit of rushing things because I know what I want. I also pull back because I am unsure as I have never committed to anyone in a relationship before.