I have been single for every valentines day of my life. The day is simply just another one to struggle through for me. I can’t miss what I never had. If I did manage to get into a relationship for at least one day it would be alien to me. On behalf of all of us who are most likely going to be single for life due to whatever reason… I rename today as singles day as a symbol of resistance toward the over commercialisation of the concept of love to sell products which they give to people who most likely ditch them or reject them at some point. This day makes people extremely depressed if they have no one. I used to feel so left out as a younger person. I have started to give less of a damn since I got older. I learnt that the world we live in is a construction of a reality seen as ideal when very few living people have that reality. This constructed reality isn’t the way it is for all of us. I am totally fed up with what is supposed to be. It is what it is. Quit the lovey dovey stuff !