I seem to be the only person who hasn’t got any post adoption contact with their child? The arrangements in the original plan never got approved during care proceedings which was a suggestion of two letters per year. Then I get told it’s too late to ask for contact after the adoption had gone through. I missed the adoption hearing because I had no one to represent me and emotionally couldn’t take it. It seems that I lost any chance of contact remotely because an order wasn’t made for contact on that day. I can’t go back. I don’t think it’s fair that everyone else seems to have at least letterbox contact apart from me.