I have been civil for over 5 years about my sons adoption towards the adoptive parents. I didn’t have to be reasonable about not even getting letterbox contact approved at the adoption. I also handled the fact that I never got a reply to my letter asking how he was… which I was informed got passed on. I’m going to speak up now because they stole my son by proxy. The adoption may have been made lawful but morally it was all completely wrong. Every day of my life I’m living a reality that is not meant to be due to them adopting my son. That isn’t what they meant to do but indirectly it happened. Therefore, indirectly they have some responsibility for the trauma of having my son ripped away from me for adoption. He is biologically mine and they haven’t even remotely been decent by at least replying to my letter. Why should I be reasonable when no one has been respectful towards me? He is rightfully mine. He doesn’t belong to them. He will never be biologically similar to them. I’m going to ensure that I get him back with me even if it takes until he’s 18. I would prefer it to be sooner but I’m no longer prepared to live without what was mine and should still be mine!